I had a thought this morning. What do men want most from their women or from the man’s woman for life? Do they wish for success unparalleled or success in obedience to the supreme Lord of their life?
Strangely men who lack mystery wish for women to be submissive to them and be successful in life as a meek receiver of the bounties of being one’s wife. But surely men with utmost courage and undying trust in their partner will desire for a successful wife – unparalleled to the contemporary ladies and an inspiration for the kids at home and in the locality at the least. Men are often dreadful of successful partners for they become more conscious of their identity vis-à-vis the woman which if low, is still considered as demeaning in the Indian society.
Now, what kind of men do women have to wish for, in such a state? Wish for a man who desires her to be less successful than Him or compromise on the career goals and keen ambitions she nurtured since childhood? Some women discard all the high ambitions to cherish the love of her man unto eternity (though not assured for all subservience), while others expel ideas that can strain families and surrender in meekness for the glory of being called the faithful wife for life.
Suddenly, the contemporary woman is in a fix – unsolvable and uncertain, for nothing can be predicted perfectly about relationships and private affairs. Ultimately, it happens that the man has his will asserted to solve the fix and resolves the issue for his woman most responsibly – which may not be the wishful choice of the follower of the man for a lifetime.
Sad, but very true in case of most women in our society and the contemporary women ought to strive for victory at home first before they leap to experience the joys of accomplishment as they aspire. And genuinely, the successful woman/the man’s wife will want to share this joy with the man of her life and in his praise blissfully.
